Ever noticed how some people just seem to always get what they want? They dream big, and somehow, those dreams always come to life. Makes you wonder, doesn’t it?
Believe it or not, it isn’t magic or luck. It’s all about habits – the little things they do (or don’t do) every single day.
So, get comfortable and let’s dive into the 11 habits that these dream achievers have up their sleeve.
Who knows? You might just pick up a tip or two to make your own dreams come true!
1. They Set Clear Goals
Ever heard the saying, “If you don’t know where you’re going, any road will get you there?”
Well, people who achieve their dreams live by it. They don’t just have vague ideas about what they want.They know exactly what their dream looks like, how it smells, and the way it feels.
They set clear, specific goals. Not just “I want to get fit”, but “I want to run a 5K in 30 minutes by the end of summer.”
And that’s not all! They also break down these big goals into smaller, manageable bits.
So instead of getting overwhelmed by the whole “5K” thing, they might start with “jog for 15 minutes every day for a week.”
Easy, right?
So next time you’re dreaming big (which should be always!), remember to make your goals super clear and break them down into bite-sized pieces.
No dream is too big if you take it one step at a time.
2. They Embrace Failure
Failure is scary, it hurts and it can make us feel like giving up.
But guess what? Those people who always seem to get what they want have a different view on failure.
For them, failure isn’t the end of the world. In fact, they see it as a stepping stone towards their dreams.
Think about it. Every time they mess up, they learn something new – why something didn’t work, how they can improve, what to do differently next time.
They don’t run away from failure. They embrace it. They learn from it. They use it to grow stronger and smarter.
3. They Stay Focused
Now, focus is something I can personally vouch for.
I remember when I decided to start my own business. I was excited and full of ideas. But there were so many things to do, I felt like a juggler with too many balls in the air. It was overwhelming!
That’s when I learned a valuable lesson from successful people – the power of focus.
They don’t try to do everything at once. They pick one task, one goal at a time and give it their undivided attention.
So, I started doing the same. Instead of trying to handle everything, I focused on one task at a time.
And things started falling into place. My stress levels went down, and my productivity went up!
Next time you feel overwhelmed by your dreams and goals, remember to stay focused. Concentrate on one thing at a time, and you’ll be amazed at how much you can achieve.
4. They Keep Learning
Did you know the average CEO reads 52 books a year? That’s a book a week! Crazy, right?
But there’s a method to their madness. Successful people understand that learning never stops. In order to stay on top of their game, they continuously educate themselves.
It’s not just about reading books. They might listen to podcasts, attend seminars, enroll in online courses or even learn a new language.
The point is, they keep their minds sharp and stay informed about the world around them.
If you want to achieve your dreams, remember to keep learning. Pick up a book, listen to a podcast or learn something new.
Not only will it help you reach your goals, it’ll also make you a more interesting person.
5. They Show Gratitude
It’s so easy to get caught up in chasing our dreams and goals that we often forget to stop and appreciate what we already have.
But the truth is, the most successful people, the ones who always achieve their dreams, they never forget to show gratitude.
They understand that being thankful for what they have brings joy and positivity into their lives, which fuels their journey towards their dreams.
Every morning, they take a moment to reflect on the things they’re grateful for – whether it’s a loving family, a warm bed, or even the chance to chase their dreams.
This simple act helps them start their day with a positive mindset and gives them the strength to face any challenges that come their way.
6. They Prioritize Their Health
A few years back, I was so caught up in chasing my dreams that I completely neglected my health. I was eating junk, not exercising and surviving on very little sleep.
Eventually, it caught up with me and I fell sick. That’s when I realized – what’s the point of achieving your dreams if you’re not healthy enough to enjoy them?
Successful people understand this. They prioritize their health because they know it’s their most valuable asset. They eat balanced meals, exercise regularly, and get enough sleep.
So, I started doing the same. I began eating healthier, started jogging every morning and made sure to get at least 7 hours of sleep every night.
And it made a world of difference! I felt more energetic, more focused and even more motivated to pursue my dreams.
Don’t neglect your health while chasing your dreams. Remember, a healthy body is the home to a healthy mind.
7. They Know When to Say No
We all want to be liked. We want to be the person who’s always there, always ready to help out. But here’s the truth – sometimes, you’ve got to say no.
Those go-getters who always seem to achieve their dreams? They’ve mastered this.
They know that time and energy are limited resources. They can’t say yes to everything without losing focus on their own goals.
It’s not easy, trust me. Saying no can feel like you’re letting people down. But remember, it’s not about being selfish. It’s about understanding your limits and respecting your own needs.
When you’re asked to do something that doesn’t align with your goals or drains you of your precious energy, be brave and say no. Your dreams are worth it.
8. They Surround Themselves With Positive Influences
We’ve all heard that you’re the average of the five people you spend the most time with.
Those dream achievers we all admire, they choose their company wisely. They understand that negativity can drain their energy and take their focus away from their goals.
They surround themselves with positive influences – people who inspire them, motivate them and push them to be better.
These can be mentors, like-minded friends or even figures of inspiration they’ve never met.
Take a look at your own circle. Are they lifting you up or bringing you down?
It’s okay to distance yourself from negativity and seek out positivity instead.
After all, your dreams deserve a positive environment to grow.
9. They Take Time to Reflect
One thing I’ve learned on my journey is the importance of taking time to reflect.
It’s so easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle, always pushing forward without taking a moment to pause and look back.
But the dream achievers, they do this differently. They understand the value of reflection.
Every now and then, they take a step back to review their progress, celebrate their wins and learn from their setbacks.
I’ve started doing this myself. At the end of each week, I take some quiet time to reflect on what I’ve achieved, what I’ve learned and where I need to improve.
Not only does it keep me grounded, but it also helps me stay focused on my goals.
10. They Don’t Expect Instant Success
We live in a world of instant gratification – instant food, instant messages, instant everything. But guess what? Success isn’t instant.
Those dream achievers we keep talking about? They don’t expect their dreams to come true overnight.
They understand that success takes time. It requires patience, hard work, and a whole lot of perseverance.
So they persist. They keep going even when things get tough, even when progress is slow. Because they know that every step, no matter how small, is bringing them closer to their dreams.
Success isn’t a sprint; it’s a marathon. It’s not about how fast you reach your goals, but about the journey you take to get there.
11. They Believe in Themselves
Last but certainly not least, let’s get honest about something really important – self-belief.
It sounds cheesy, I know. But here’s the raw truth: If you don’t believe in yourself, who will?
Those who achieve their dreams do so because they believe they can. They have faith in their abilities and in their dreams.
Sure, they have doubts and fears like everyone else. But they don’t let these hold them back.
Instead, they use their self-belief as fuel to push through challenges and keep moving forward.
So let’s take a leaf out of their book. Believe in yourself, believe in your dreams, and don’t let anything or anyone stand in your way.
This article was written by Lachlan Brown, the founder, and editor of Hack Spirit. Check out his latest book on the Hidden Secrets of Buddhism and How it Saved My Life. If you want to get in touch with me, hit me up on Facebook or Twitter.